Join TakoLOL, a super chill semi-vanilla survival server with a nice mix of survival, PvE, PvP, and mcMMO. If you want a relaxed place to build, claim land, make money, and just hang out with good people, this is the kind of server you can settle into pretty easily.
We support both Java and Bedrock players, and the server has regional locations in the USA, Europe, and Asia so you can usually get a better connection depending on where you are. There's a player-run economy, shops, and even a mall where you can rent your own shop space, so there's plenty to do besides just mining and building.
There are land claims to help keep your stuff protected, and while there are pretty much no strict rules, this is not meant to be a griefing or anarchy server. Just be decent to people and you'll be fine. Rude players get removed fast, so the vibe stays friendly and easygoing.