Small family and friends ran Towny RPG server with a community-first vibe. It's built for players who like a more laid-back survival style, with town building, RPG elements, and a mix of PvE and PvP depending on how you play.
There's AuctionHouse, Bedrock support, leaderboards, charity events like Extra Life, and D/W/M rewards. The server also has linked chat with custom terrain, and custom mobs to keep things feeling a bit more alive than plain vanilla.
Bluemap is available too, so it's easy to check out the world and see what's going on. Hosted on a 4 GB server in San Francisco, California.