The server will greet you with open arms: friendly and close-knit players will be able to help, if something goes wrong, suggest something urgent or even give you the night and food you need. However, on a sim server, you don’t have to fear spawn’s life – for even if “griffing” is not prohibited, no one is going to use it!
And if fate has already put a knife in your back, do not despair and go forward as long as there is a goal.