VexLands Empires is a Java-hosted server with various plugins, such as Bedrock support, anti griefing, and anti combat log. Players are encouraged to spread out and build vast settlements and nations that can then interact with others in interesting political ways. Players can build big bases with many members and laws of the land, or small bases with few members. Nations can declare war on each other, or become allies and work together.
Discord: https://discord.gg/G9HU5UeA
IP: 172.96.140.17
Port Address: 19340
The server is still fairly new, so there are still some bugs that need ironing out. Also there is information in the discord to help Xbox players join as well.