RexMC is a peaceful Survival server with crossplay and an economy setup, so it works well if you want to build, grind, and hang out without constant chaos. PvP is allowed by consent, so fights happen when both sides want them, not just all the time.
You can start off with a free starter kit, then settle in and get to know the friendly community. Regular giveaways keep things moving, and there are also marvelous builds being made on the server regularly, so there is always something nice to come back to.
If you are looking for a relaxed server with a social feel, RexMC is a solid place to join. Cya there:)