Most if not all incel girls have played Minewind or other Minecraft servers, and I’m sure most of them can relate to this. Minecraft has gotten so popular at schools and universities in many different countries that it sometimes fills classrooms just by itself, without even being mentioned in a group or having a room assigned to it (which is a nice way of indicating interest).
I know incels who regularly play Minecraft at their university. Not one of my friends played for a really long time before that (at least a month). My friend who plays games a lot (and who is not a very active one) says he never played before this year, and my best friend who plays games a lot also didn’t really play before this year either.
Most of my girl friends are incels and they just find you. If you are incel, it may seem like it’s because you’ve got a higher IQ, but it’s just because your brain is larger than theirs. Like we’re a different species.
Incels don’t need social validation. If you’re incel, then you need to create the conditions where you want to see women and other women. You need to make them feel appreciated, accepted and loved. You have to go out of your way in an attempt to get them to show up and interact with you. You need to be a woman (not a girl), be the top incel, and be the leader of your own little gang of incels.
If you fail to meet that need in your life, well, let’s just say it ain’t working for you. Then it’s time for you to work on fixing it. You’re in a real fight against societal expectations to be the incel queen.