Huges Net is a survival multiplayer server for anyone who wants a simple, friendly place to play. It supports both Java and Bedrock, so crossplay is enabled and pretty much anyone can hop in with their friends.
When you start out, you get a starter kit with chainmail armor, stone tools, and a guide book to help you get moving. If you need it, the kit command is /hughesnet_kit. It's meant to be easy to join and easy to understand, while still keeping that survival and PvP feel.