I love cybering with random girls on Minecraft servers, in fact it is one of my favorite past time activities. I even started taking classes on how to do that. It doesn’t hurt my feelings when they think its bad or awkward because it does not help them with their gaming experience at all.
I also know the guys who are online and are “in a relationship” with some girls like to play some games or meet a girl. And they can just sit back and stare at the screen or play another game with their computer. What can I say? I am a geek I guess. I enjoy some of the games and have even started playing some MMO (World of Warcraft / Diablo III / DOTA)
This can obviously be a huge turn on for some girls. However, for them this is a lot more than just a game for a night. Girls will look at you with a big puppy dog face and ask what are you doing here and then they will take their laptop out for the night and do something else.
They will be all like: “oh what are you doing”.
All and all girl gamers love to cyberbully the guy when in reality most of them don’t understand it. This is the point why some girls go around trying to “get” the guy. You’re just being that nice guy that you want women to want. It’s not going to work. As someone who has been cyberbullied before, it’s hard not to get pissed off. The thing is that when it’s all said and done the girl will probably want to take revenge a few times and try to dox you as well. Don’t give in to it. Don’t be that guy with the dick-shaped sunglasses (aka: “I hope”) who just wants to be ignored because she’s not your type as that’s not going to work. Don’t be the “we aren’t the ones who should care about you” but instead try to make yourself seem like a person the girl likes so that her mind stays on her, not you. As long as you’re being yourself you’re not gonna get the girl anyways.
I have a lot of experience with this as my ex was a hot girl gamer and I was just a nice guy. I knew she wanted me to bring her to an event I played in so I did. I had no idea how much my body hurt. I wasn’t even sure what happened, but I remember just being completely out of it and thinking “oh fuck, can’t wait to show her how much I care for her”. I think I lost it a little in the shower, she said she wanted it to be that, didn’t you? It was so easy, I went in and just started taking off my clothes, and all of a sudden she was telling me she wanted to try something on and to start doing it for me and then to put my own clothes back on. And it didn’t take long for me to start getting really turned on because her boobs were much bigger than any I had ever seen. I don’t know how many times I’ve had my dick sucked or had my penis fucked and was like “ahh, I do like this” that moment for me, that’s when I knew I’d found my mate on this Minecraft server.
Trust me when I say this about pretty much all gamer girls of this generation, it is always hard to find the girls that will consider you a real man, and that can be a blessing or a curse. I’m only 23 and I’m pretty sure I’ve never found the girl that I would consider “boyfriend material”.
However, one thing that I think gamers seem to have in common with women, if not everyone in general is obsessed with the idea of having a “perfect” body, there was an awful lot of it when I began reading about gamers. For one thing it was a hobby that the average girl in her early 20s could never really fathom being involved in; not only that, but the very idea of being beautiful was an anathema in gamer culture – if you looked like some fat piece of snot and couldn’t even move your arms, you weren’t “real” gamer girl.